Tips in online Dating

Just because you are not sitting across from someone in a bar or restaurant where you must have your guard up, you should not let your guard down with online dating. In fact, because you cannot monitor a person’s reactions or looking into the eyes (the window to the soul), you should take extra care regarding safety when considering online dating.
For the most part, online dating offers wonderful opportunities to meet someone special and since you are communicating from the comfort of your own home, there is a level of security. However, because of this laidback approach, too often people will start telling the stranger on the other end of the computer all types of things that could be turned around and used to cause harm. Therefore, while you want to share information to get to know someone, some things should not be shared, at least initially.

*If the online dating service has a chat room, you should be very careful about the information you share. Far too often, predators will lurk, portraying themselves as other singles trying to make a connection. While you want to have a good time chatting just be careful about the information talked about.

*Never provide any type of personally identifiable information in your profile, e-mail messages, or chat room conversations. This information would include your name, address, city where you live, phone number, name of the company where you work, organizations that you are associated with, and so on.

*Be sure you use the communication tools provided by the dating service. For instance, you want a dating service that has e-mail so you do not have to use your own personal e-mail to keep in touch with someone. In fact, many online dating services now offer IM so that too should be used rather than your personal IM account.

*If you choose to communicate with someone using e-mail outside of the service, at least create a special anonymous account. Some of the better choices include Yahoo and Hotmail, which are free.

*Do not let anyone pressure you into giving out information that you know you should keep to yourself. Remind yourself that you are in control and are not required to do anything you do not want to do.

*Start out slow and remember the old cliché, "If it seems too good to be true – it probably is." The key is to watch for inconsistencies or behavioral changes in someone. This would be a clue that something is not what it seems. Always trust your instincts and if someone or something makes you feel uncomfortable then move on.

*When meeting someone online, be sure you use common sense and exercise caution. Although most people will come across as being trustworthy, and most probably are, you need to pay close attention to each conversation. Make sure you do not fall in love prematurely, which can be easy to do with online dating.

*If the person you are communicating with does not have a photo posted, ask for not one, but two or three current photos. First, this will help validate that the person is the one in the photo and second, it will show you if he or she is trying to hide something. It is not that love should be based on looks alone, but it is important to see if there is a physical attraction. If you get one excuse after another, this should raise a major red flag.

*Once you have met one or two people that interest you and have spent quite a bit of time chatting, set up a phone call, always using your cell phone. The call itself is important in that it shows you the level of communication and social skills, as well as manners and degree of intelligence. Additionally, by using your cell phone for the conversation, you are not giving out coveted private information that could be traced to find where you live.

*Finally, never do anything to make you feel uneasy about a situation. For example, if you have decided to meet someone in person, always make sure a friend goes with you but stays out of sight or that a friend or family member knows the person’s name, phone number, where you are going, and what time you will be home. It is then your responsibility not to deviate from your plans and if you do, call your friend or family member advising them of the new plan.

Place I was Born and Raised in Homonhon Island

I just wanna share you the history the place i grew up with in the Philippines, enjoy reading The History Of Samar maybe someday you will come there and visit the Paradise Island and beautiful beaches ....The Province of Eastern Samar was created by Republic Act. No. 4221 approved by Congress on June 19, 1965. It divided the whole island of Samar into three independent provinces: Northern Samar, Western Samar (subsequently renamed Samar), and Eastern Samar. The eastern province was to be composed of 23 municipalities, with Borongan as the capital. The first set of officials were elected in 1967.Eastern Samar played important roles in the country’s history. On March 16, 1521, Ferdinand Magellan first set foot on Philippine soil in the island of Homonhon, on his way to rediscover the Philippines for the western world.An American garrison occupation troops was annihilated by the townspeople of Balangiga on September 28, 1901. Now known in history as the “Balangiga Massacre,” the accident triggered a wave of reprisals against the people of the whole island of Samar.On October 17, 1944, rangers of the U.S. Army landed on the tiny island of Suluan Guiuan and had their first encounter of the Philippine territory three days before General Douglas MacArthur landed on the beaches of Leyte.Earliest known chronicles reveal that further contact with western civilization, aside from the Magellan landing, occurred as early as 1596 when Jesuit missionaries worked their way from the western coast of the island of Samar and established mission centers in what is now the Eastern Samar territory. It is most probable that the populated existing settlements were created pueblos shortly after this time. The eastern part of the island was known as “ibabao” and distinct from Samar, which was the name of the western part. It was Magellan who named the place where he landed as Homonhon.

I got my Permit from DMV

I've been here in US for about 10 months, but just recently I take my writen exam... and gosh I was so nervous because the day I take the exam I was'nt ready, My Husband was been busy working for the past few months, and the day he called and ask me if I want to take exam I hesitate to answer yes because I'm unprepared.

So ashame to failed the exam and imagine driving down to the ofice of DMV take about an hour and diesel was expensive (lol) My Husband called me again and convience me if I wanna go there and i said big yes the second time even not so sure of myself if I'm going to pass the exam or not.

I got my Manual book month of August and since I have the book I just read it twice, I just stare at the book and I'm so lazy to read because nothing interest me.

My Friend Anna is the one who get the book in the ofice of DMV and drive to home after she have it lucky friend I' am right??? I just want to say thank you to her from the start we meet here in Wisconsin she is very kind and she bring me to the places I want to go, I can tell she is real and true friend of mine. She give me hints also what to study and it really helps because it comes out on the test.

Finally on that day I pass the exam I just take it once and my Husband is so happy he dont need to drive down there again and re-take the exam lol he is my Angel and my best Husband ever thank you Baby for conviencing me that day to take the exam !!!